From: Managing abusive experiences: a qualitative study among older adults in Sweden
Meaning Unit (quote) | Condensed meaning unit | Code | Category | Theme |
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About the desired response from the health care system after telling about abuse: “Absolutely believe the person that tells. That is the first thing. That is absolutely most important, and not be sceptical, and sort of “No, well… perhaps…” That is a very common attitude. Instead, one has to truly believe what is said, and then in all ways possible give support.” | In health care: Absolutely believe the one that tells [about abuse]. That is the first thing. That is absolutely most important […] one has to truly believe what is said, and then in all ways possible give support | Most important is that the health care staff believes in me and give support | Someone that listens and believes in me | Restoring dignity in relation to others |
About abuse in health care: “When physicians have some sort of meeting and have lectures and so on, one could bring this up as an example” | When physicians have some sort of meeting […] one could bring this up as an example | Use my experience to learn from | Hope that the Organization learn from my negative experience | |
About abuse by a partner “Do it one more time and I will bust you for it. Then he started laughing. You can laugh I said, but you won’t laugh if you do it, because I promise I will report you to the police” | Do it one more time and I will bust you for it. […] you won’t laugh if you do it, because I promise I will report you to the police | Speaking up against the abuser | Stand up or speaking up for oneself | |
About abuse at a nursing home: Sometimes I get so mad and can not fall asleep when things have happened. Then I lay thinking about it and get angry. So I feel kind of powerless.” | I get so mad and can’t sleep. Then I lay thinking about it and get angry. I feel kind of powerless | Feel powerless when abuse occurred at nursing home | Difficulties speaking up because of help dependence |